Five Minute Friday on Sunday

I’m a little late to the party this week.  But that’s fashionable, right?

I am joining Five Minute Friday again this week, although a bit late.  I have been going through a blog move this week (which I will talk about more sometime in the future, but long story short, I moved from to this past week), so I’ve been a little light on posting.  And this next week is our first week of classes at both campuses where I teach AND I’m traveling to St. Louis on Thursday, so this might be another light week of blogging.  We shall see.  I need to get my weekly rhythm figured out and then stick with a routine based on that rhythm.  So, in four weeks or so, I will hopefully have it down to a regular schedule of posts.  For now, I’m going to do what I can without stressing myself out too much.

This week’s word for Five Minute Friday is “Refine”.  Here goes:

I went to church today for the first time in a while.  We had friends go who don’t typically go and it was nice to have someone to sit with.  The music was raucous.  Both the Gospel Choir and the Contemporary Ensemble were playing and the music was fun.  I’m always pleasantly surprised with the music at church when I go as I remember the music not being so fun when I was younger.

The message was also very welcome today.  It was about Knowing, Living and Loving. I had already been feeling a bit in need of a focus on love as of late.  There is so much anger and hatred and volatility in the world that it can easily create fear and outrage.  But, instead, I am attempting to focus on loving and caring.  I posted this on my Instagram yesterday:

So, the message at church fit in well and helped me to refine my outward goals, but also my inward goals.  I need to refine my vision of life.  I need to rest in God’s grace and know that He will see me through whatever comes my way.  The last eight years have been rough, but they have also been blessed in many ways.  Refining my vision of knowing God’s word, Living as Jesus would have lived (if He were me, as our pastor so aptly put it…so, if Jesus had been a college professor and parent and Girl Scout leader, what would he have done?), and loving as Jesus has asked us to love.  He has asked us to love our neighbors, our enemies, our family members and ourselves as He has loved us.  We are a work in progress, not at all refined in these skills, but they are there.  The possibilities are there for us to achieve these great goals.  And that will be my focus going forward.

Time’s up…

Hope you consider joining Five Minute Friday this week if you aren’t already there!

My first retail job – bankrupt!

If you’ve got a gift card for The Limited gathering dust, you may want to use it before a potential bankruptcy could make that card worth less than the plastic it’s printed on. In the last month, The Limited has made it known that it was exploring its options, maybe looking for a buyer. However,…

via It’s Probably Time To Use Up Your Gift Cards For The Limited — Consumerist

I got my first retail job when I was 18 and had started Community College.  Prior to that, I had worked as a lifeguard and swim instructor during the summer and not at all during the school year (my parents were relatively generous and I saved money from my summer job).  But, when I started Community College, I really wanted to work at the mall in the next city up from my Community College, which was already about 10 miles from my home town.  My hometown did not have a mall and it seemed glamorous to have a job in a clothing retailer there.  I put in applications at multiple stores, but got hired at The Limited.  I learned a lot at that job.  I learned how to fold a sweater with clipboard like a champ and I still fold all my shirts and sweaters that way (without the clipboard, so not as exact in size, but the same basic idea).  I learned how to push an add-on item like socks when people were making purchases (I hated it, but I learned how to do it).  I learned that clothing does not actually make the person.  There were a lot of people who came there to shop who were dressed incredibly well but whose actions were less than appealing.  I learned about shoplifting.  I learned about sales targets and how unfair they were (less hours for not reaching your sales targets, but then you were even LESS likely to reach sales targets…).  I learned that management in retail is far from glamorous.  And although I worked in retail again a few times, I also learned this was NOT the career for me.  I learned that lifeguarding and teaching swim lessons was about 110% better than selling clothes.  Needless to say, I didn’t last long at the job.  I think I worked there for about six months before leaving, but it was definitely a valuable learning experience.

Now, The Limited is possibly going bankrupt.  When I worked there it was the bee’s knees, so-to-speak.  The sweaters were sought after.  Everyone wanted their cute jeans and their accessories.  It was all that and more.  But, times change.  I’m actually kind of surprised they’ve lasted this long.  When I think back to the mall I worked in, many stores have gone under – Mervyn’s, Miller’s Outpost (the second retailer I worked for and although I liked it much better than The Limited, it still wasn’t great), Gottschalk’s.

My original hometown still doesn’t have a mall.  They have a number of large “strip” malls, but not an actual inside mall.  The mall I worked at is still there and still crowded much of the time.  My current hometown has mall, but it isn’t the bustling, glamorous center it used to be.  It is now more of an indoor strip mall.  The exception is the holiday season, when Santa is there and they show movies in the mall and there are decorations.  But, for the most part, this generation seeks online shopping experiences rather than the communal mall experience.  I don’t know if that is good or bad.  But, I imagine that less individuals will be able to claim their first job at a retail establishment in the mall.  They may miss out on some valuable lessons if that is the case.

What about you?  Do you have a retail selling experience?  Was it in a mall?  Is the retailer still in business or no?  I would love to hear your stories!