Well, today was Back to School day for my DD:
I haven’t been posting here much lately for a couple of reasons. First, we went away for the last four days with family and the internet was spotty at best. Second, one of the exercises in Say Goodbye to Survival Mode: 9 Simple Strategies to Stress Less, Sleep More, and Restore Your Passion for Life was to list out my priorities. When I did so, this blog was not on the list. I didn’t think about it until afterwards when I went back to review them to set goals and realized the blog was not even on the list, so no goals were needed.
I am a little disappointed as I like the THOUGHT of blogging on a regular basis and forming a community and maybe even making some money from writing one day, but this made it clear that this is just something that is not important RIGHT NOW. I do like that Crystal Paine (the author) talks about seasons of life and how some things just don’t fit with what you’re doing at THAT TIME. It doesn’t mean I will never be a “blogger” in some serious way or that I can’t blog when I have the time here, it just means that right now it isn’t really something that is a priority for me. It is kind of nice to see some things fall away that would stress me out (yes, even though I don’t have a ton of followers or a big demand, I would stress out about missing blogging days). Blogging when I have so many other things to do is one of them. Maybe when I get my routines down and time starts to become more available, I will be able to devote more time to it. But for now, I’m going to aim to do Five Minute Fridays (because I love that exercise and that community) and Six Word Saturday (because who can’t write six words?) and maybe one other day a week if I have time.
I haven’t found a lot of other things I can just let go of so easily, but I am working at making my classes manageable as far as grading and prep is concerned (trying to do a lot of front-end prep work right now). I am also NOT volunteering to do things I might have done before because I realize that I need to figure out my schedule and time management and priorities first before I can start adding things in (even those things that are on my priority list). If you’re curious about my priorities, here they are:
Family/Parenting: Spending quality time together as a family everyday. Includes: eating meals – breakfast and dinner together. Game night once a week. Family walks three times a week.
Work: Prepare and perform to provide my students the best possible experience both in and out of class. Includes: Be prepared! Start each week with a clear plan for each class and time set aside for grading. Being present in class. Focusing on students – their learning and experiences in each class. Use office hours for work projects. Focus on advising, grading and Forensics projects. Finally, stay on top of email! Zero inbox every three days is the goal! Respond, Refuse or Refer!
Health: Get and maintain the best possible health to protect me now and in the future. Includes: Do regular check ups for medical and dental. Eat right – healthy food and 4-5 meals a day. Exercise – weight resistant/bearing exercise 5X/week and cardio 3X/week.
Finances: Get all accounts in order/paid up or off and then maintain a budget and spending plan. Includes: Get taxes done for 2014. Conserve money for only things we REALLY want/need. Question everything! Meal plan to reduce food waste. Do online points programs to make extra money each month.
Relationships: Establish and maintain relationships with God and good people. Includes: Attend church at least 2x/month or more (whenever not traveling for work). Do morning devotional every day. Do Bidwell Pres prayer list everyday. Go out with friends at least 1X/month. Send 5-10 cards each month to friends, family and coworkers. Do friends trip 1X/year at least. Date with my hubby 2X/month.
Life Management: Manage my household responsibly to have a clean, peaceful and enjoyable space, physically, mentally and spiritually. Includes: Do MOMS App for daily household duties. Set up and keep routines that WORK! Purchase only what you love and declutter all else. Continue working on simplicity and minimalism in my home and life.
So, that’s not much, huh?
I did include blogging when I did my weekly time block planning (I allowed for seven hours – one per day), but that time block is not going to work unless I get my act together and do the things above. So, there is blogging in my future – maybe pretty immediate future, but for now, it is not going to be done unless the other stuff is done above.
I will say that reading this book (I am now on page 83) is making reminding me how much I live my life in fire fighting mode. I simply wait around for the three alarm fires to get so bad I can’t ignore them anymore and then I fight to put them out. Exhausted after all the effort it takes to get the blaze out, I collapse in a mess and wait for the next three alarm fire. I need to do some prevention now and make my life calmer, more satisfying and less exhausting. It won’t be easy. I’ve been living this way for a while now. But, I’m looking forward to living a fire-free life!
So, that’s where I am. You will see me on a somewhat irregular basis for a little bit (hopefully not long). And when I am here, I hope to be focused on this space and better at writing, sharing and saying things that matter.