Well, I have failed at the #31days posts, but since it fits within my theme of “Coming up for Air” I thought I would go ahead and tag this as one. I think I’ve spoken before on here about how a student of mine last year told me about her strict adherence to a “day of rest” each week. Because our speech and debate team travels on weekends, she told me that she needed to work out a different day of the week to have her day of rest – she felt like it was very important to her mental, physical and emotional well-being. At the time, I thought it sounded kind of extreme. A whole day of rest? Isn’t a few hours here and there good enough? But, the more I realized my levels of stress and constant putting out fires, the more I started to come around on having this entire of day of rest each week.
I have not actually achieved a full day of rest yet. Originally, I thought Thursdays would be that day, but then I started filling them up with things. Another class to teach. A leadership workshop in the evening. It is hard to schedule things such that one day a week I do nothing – no commitments. If I CHOOSE to do something, it has to be something that is not required – something spontaneous and something that feeds my spirit and health. So, I’ve decided to try to schedule an entire day of rest next semester. And then make sure I actually do not agree to anything scheduled on that day. It will be hard to do, but I’m going to try to do it.
Today was my partial day of rest. But, I spent the second half of it in the pediatrician’s office and then at our local hospital getting an echocardiogram and EKG for her because her blood pressure was extremely low. Turns out all was fine, but when you have a heart transplant recipient, you have to play it safe and get the checks done. Tomorrow morning we’ll get a blood draw to check her med levels, but I think she was just a bit dehydrated.
First, thumbs up for our transplant team at Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital. They are truly fantastic and make me feel like they care about my child as much as I care about my child. That can’t be easy with the volume of patients that they serve, but they really do make it feel that way. We have felt nothing but blessed with being placed at LPCH for our daughter’s heart care.
Second, thumbs up for echo and ekg techs who were awesome with a four year old tonight at our local hospital. I can’t imagine that either of them work on preschoolers very often, but both of them were amazing with her.
Third, thumbs up for my awesome four year old and her incredible behavior through the doctor’s appointment, echocardiogram and EKG this afternoon. I know she must have been exhausted after a day of preschool, but she was in good spirits, very cooperative and more than anything she was joyful. I am so incredibly thankful that I have a child who rolls with the punches as far as her medical services go. She could be miserable and crying and resistant, but instead she almost embraces it. I am so, so thankful.
Finally, thumbs up for a partial day of rest. Although this afternoon was a long, three hour medical check, I was at least well-rested after my morning of quiet, Midsomer Murders and pumpkin spice coffee. I fully embrace the idea of having entire days like that in my future.