Considering my “slow” goals over the weekend, my week has started out pretty darned busy. Although, not overwhelmingly so. Yet. I do have a few Tuesday Truths to share this Tuesday.
Simplicity and minimalism is not simple. I’ve been watching some “Tiny House Nation” lately because I am fascinated by people’s desire and ability to live in a space that is the size of our living room. My biggest question is WHERE IS ALL THEIR STUFF? Why do I have so much stuff? And why do I have such a hard time getting rid of said stuff. I pick up things, look at them, ponder whether I should get rid of them or not…some are easy to toss in the give away box or the trash can, but most take a lot of emotional energy to do so. And there is SO. SO. SO. much of it. Where did it all come from? I am sure that it gets easier as you pare down your stuff. Upstairs, I have a bookcase in the hallway that was piled with books and other stuff. I mean, it was full of books and then I had books piled up in front of the books. And on top of the books were some photos in frames and some little trinkets, etc.
I cleaned it out last week. And now there is open space. Open. Space. It is crazy how much that makes me happy. So, now I realize how great it would be to have that same feeling looking at other parts of our house. My Sister-In-Law and I joked about our Mother-In-Law because when they cleaned out a cabinet at her house they found 13 salt and pepper shaker sets. But, I need to joke about myself. Today, I was going through some more books and found two hardback versions of the The Bonesetters Daughter (a book I have yet to read) and two paperback versions of Sarah’s Key (another book I have yet to read). And that is in addition to a bunch of other books that I’ve been storing on my bookshelves that I know I will NEVER read. So, now I have a pile of books to decide if I should take them to the used bookstore to try to sell them, list them online or just pile them in the thrift store box and be done with them. That will take some time to figure out.
We are a messy family. That’s the only way I can explain us. And I can’t point my fingers at others with a halo over my head, because I am just as guilty a lot of the time. I do a lot of cleaning. But, I think the reason I have to clean so much is because we don’t do any maintenance. I have piles everywhere. Right now, sitting on the couch, I can look to my right and see a pile of receipts and ads from my purse that I took out to find something. My DD’s key chain collection (which is all tied on to a single string). A deck of Littlest Pet Shop cards we were playing with the other day and never got put away…to my left is the scary, scary dining room table. This one is actually worth a photo:
So, yeah. I got home from my mom’s a week ago tomorrow. The ice chest is from that trip. The cone is from the dog coming home from the vet today. The black bag is my work bag. The green bag is another bag from the trip that is empty, but hasn’t been put away. The Amazon box came yesterday and I didn’t open it yet. There is cleaner that was left out. A Build A Bear that someone was playing with and the dog took from them and I put it on the table to keep it from becoming covered in slobber. There are coloring books. The papers from three (yes, three) purses that I cleaned out when moving them from one closet to another and/or getting rid of them. The same thing happens in my car. I will get it all cleaned out and within a week, there are piles of books, clothes, food wrappers, possibly food…it is RIDICULOUS!
So, I’m wondering. Can we overcome this messiness? This lack of care and concern for our space and our things? Because we are all the same. It isn’t just one of us. It is all of us. So, here is my take on things:
- We have too. much. stuff. There is not a place for everything because…well, there is literally not a place for everything. So, decluttering will help. BUT…
- We are also lazy. I can’t think of another word for it. When it is easier to LEAVE something than to pick it up and take it back where it belongs, it gets LEFT.
- Finally, we are pilers. We love to pile things up to be dealt with “later”. Unfortunately, later often comes far too late…
So, there you have it. No solution. Just the truth. I am hoping that decluttering will be helpful. Doing away with laziness is a little more difficult, but if we can just have a place for everything than we can maybe we can pressure ourselves to actually put things back where they belong. And the piles. Well, pilers pile. But, we’ll pile less if we have places to put things. Maybe. Just maybe.
So, those are my two BRILLIANT truths for today (sarcasm aside). What are your truths on this Tuesday?