My DD asked me yesterday what it means to be “grounded” because her friend keeps telling her he is going to tell on her for things and she is going to get grounded. We don’t ground her. When your six, I’m not even sure what that would entail. But, today, I’m grounding myself in a much different way. But, I like the idea of telling people that I’m grounding myself because it does kind of work for what I want to do for myself as well.
When a child gets grounded, they are usually house-bound, required to give up the things they usually do and think about why they are in that predicament. At my stage in life, this almost sounds like a blessing rather than a punishment. I would love to have someone force me to stop doing what I spend most of my days doing and just let me think. But, what I consider grounded to be is reflected in the Merriam-Webster dictionary’s definitions:
—used to describe a person who is sensible and has a good understanding of what is really important in life
: mentally and emotionally stable : admirably sensible, realistic, and unpretentious <remainsgrounded despite all the praise and attention>
So, my 2016 word of the year is going to be grounded. And I want to become a person who is sensible. One who has a good understanding of what is really important in life. I want to be mentally and emotionally stable. I want to be realistic and unpretentious. And I want to be deserving of admiration, praise and attention in my approach to life.